This is my first and definitely you will see more coming in.
I selected this topic because of certain reasons and I like all the readers to not just read what I am writing but to try to understand why I am writing. This is how you will really visualize how it is related to every one of us. Life becoming beautiful day by day, its not because I am hearing all good news from everyone OR I am getting everything what I was expecting. It is because I am getting many things from life that I have not even expected. Life is teaching me the most fruitful part of her. It is shaping me such a strong way that now I can relate incidents with each other. Now i can visualize hidden reasons behind each incident happening in my life.
I regularly talk to many of my friends and realized that everyone's life is related to each other OR is same in many ways. But how you take it and how you learn from it builds your future. We need to figure out what is actually the positive behind all happenings. And you believe me if you are not able to figure out any positive reason behind all happenings then you are not scrutinizing the situation in depth OR you don't know what yourself itself. You should do more introspection and list all you positives. And why do you think it’s a positive.
Whenever you feel you are in trouble (not down I have written when you feel because trouble is just a feeling and not a real scenario), you should see the list that lists all your positives and read the reasons again and then relate. Relate whether you are really are using your positives in this situation OR you are not looking at your strengths and that why it looks like all black and negative. See, how your positives can help you in this situation and start using them and now with more attention. This is the time you should not overlook them and start strengthening them.
Understanding yourself should be the first step and don't spend too much time in that. Just make sure you keep on doing that on regular basis. As just sitting for hours to understand yourself will help you but making it a regular habit will help you more.
So, here with my first post I wish you all a happy positive life.
Bye.